If you begin by forgiving yourself for all the things you may have done that were not okay with another, you will find it much easier to forgive another for what was done that is not okay with you, as Neil Donald Walsh wrote. Once you've forgiven yourself, shower yourself with praise and love; then shower everyone and everything with praise and love. Believe me, love is more rewarding than revenge.
Namaste! Becca Chopra, author of The Chakra Diaries